Conversion therapy is a pseudo-scientific method that aims to change one's sexual orientation. This method is being used in the USA as a way of changing homosexuality. It is based upon the assumption that homosexuality is a mental disorder and that one can 'snap out' of being a homosexual. Which brings me to question is homosexuality something that can be cured?
For many years, society have astonished by homosexuals and have frowned upon that decided to 'come out'. I think the reason why individuals find it difficult to 'come out' is that they are worried that friends or family won't accept them. So if the people they love can't accept them they feel that society wouldn't accept them either.
Last night there was a documentary about conversion therapy. The documentary was filmed in America, where a journalist followed some men on their journey of converting from homosexuals to heterosexual. The path was difficult for some and they had to see a therapist or go to camp so that they could defeat their demons, these demons included watching gay porn regularly or fantasizing about men.There was one man that really opened my eyes about the situation, he concluded that conversion therapy should not be allowed for those under 18 and that if you are gay then you should accept it and not change this to please other people.
Personally, I am against the whole conversion therapy treatment and that it can work. If anyone has been through the process then I am up for a discussion about how it worked and changed your life but I just don't see how you are a homosexual one year then the next you are straight (of course it doesn't work like this). I have nothing against homosexuals but the way I see it, is you cannot flick a switch on your emotions whatever sexuality you are, you should embrace it and accept that it is a part of you.
Tuesday 30 October 2012
Monday 13 August 2012
Amy McLean
Amy McLean talks about living with an eating disorder, David Tennant and becoming a journalist.
For those that don't know you, how would you best describe yourself and your work?
Adventurous. I like to dip my toe in a variety of waters. I'm always up for trying something new, something different, so like to branch out as much as possible. As long as I am writing, and am absorbed in the world of entertainment in some way, I am happy.
How was life like for you, growing up?
I was a child of the 90s - I think it's safe to say that they were the simpler times (granted, children of the decades that preceded it will likely argue otherwise!). I'm not sure whether or not this was how I felt at the time, but in hindsight I can see that I was blessed with quite a lovely childhood. Despite being a child of what society likes to label as a 'broken home', I never wanted for anything. I do think my ability to lose myself in books and television played a part in my contentment!
What was life like dealing with an eating disorder?
Painful. Eating Disorders, in their severity, ruin lives. I was fifteen when I was diagnosed with Anorexia, and hospitalisation over the Christmas of 2007 came as a bit of a wake up call. The months both before and after this were harrowing; they were filled with copious amounts of self-loathing, aggravation, and the creation of spirit-crushing memories. However, I do think that suffering from such an illness has, at the end of the day, allowed me to develop into a much stronger person that I was before. The way I think of it is, what is life without experience? If we sail through life peacefully with no hurdles, it allows for little room to grow.
Living with an eating disorder controls your life. How did you manage to overcome it?
I will be honest here; it still controls me. There's not a day that I wake up and don't contemplate the day's menu. How am I going to get away with not eating today? Do I feel like I can cope with another binge? Why do I have to be like this? Etc. As far as I can see, it is something that will maintain its place at the forefront of my mind for the foreseeable future. It's been my life for six years. I can't really remember an alternative way of thinking.
What inspired you to become a TV critic?
This is a very interesting question, that does leave me a little baffled! I don't find idolisaiton in any specific critics; my inspirations come from those more akin to presenting and broadcasting: Andrea McLean, Ellie Crisell. I was seven years old when I decided I wanted to become a TV presenter, and ten when I realised my route was Journalism. Over the years, I've become more in favour of entertainment journalism, with which comes my love of TV (and theatre) critique.
If you could be in any programme what would it be and why?
Loose Women! Back in 2007 I fell in love with the show, and made the decision that, one day, I would find myself seated behind that desk. It was also the show that partly allowed me to clamber out of the severities of my Anorexia, by providing me with a strong career goal that meant more to me than 'becoming thin'. I'm not fussy here - I don't mind whether I become the show's anchor, a regular panellist, a guest panellist, or even just a guest! Of course, the more involvement I would have with the show the better, but at the end of the day, simply being able to say "I was on Loose Women!" would allow me to cross off one of my two greatest career aims.
What motivates you to carry on?
My career. I realise that if I don't power through with the challenges and obstacles that life frequently throws at me, I'll never get to where I want to be. I just tell myself, "If I can just get through this day, I will be one day closer to reaching the heights I'm stretching for." My passion for my career has been my rock.
How did you know what you wanted to be?
It was Blue Peter which initially attracted me to Television; Konnie Huq looked like she had so much fun presenting the show, and I knew straight away that it was something I wanted to do. Of course, at the time I never contemplated the hard work that comes with such a career, but my dedication to grafting has nicely fallen into place over the years without having to really think about it. My need to write was realised after a journalist from the Evening Express visited my class in primary school. The way Scott Begbie talked about his job allowed me to understand that a career that combined my love of writing with my love of Television was the best way forward. And from that moment, I've never looked back.
Who would be your ultimate celebrity husband and why?
Ha! That's a very good question. I'm inclined to say David Tennant, having been besotted with his Scottish beauty since Christmas Day 2005! Of course, he's taken now, which really does lessen my chances!
Do you have any advice for those that do reviews?
Be fair, be honest; say what you think. Don't hold back with your views. However, remember that there is no need to be bitter towards a particular show or actor just for the sake of it. There's having a vaild comment, and then there's passing judgement just to be cruel. There's one particular 'critic', who will remain unnamed, who seems to attack everything and everybody with vulgarity just to make people feel bad. Explore different genres to gain a wider understanding. This will also provide you with valuable information that you can draw into your reviews. Cultural awareness is important too. The more background information you have on a particular subject, the more you can connect with and relate to it, the more you will find that you have to say. Most importantly, enjoy sharing your views with others! If you do not find enjoyment in writing the review (or recording the video if done in that format), then it is very unlikely that others will care to listen to what you have to say! Reviewing entertainment takes a lot of effort, but it is so very rewarding.
To ask Amy your own questions you can follow her blog: http://www.mcleanamy.blogspot.co.uk/ you can look at the reviews she has made by visiting: http://www.youtube.com/tvcriticamy/ or you can tweet her on: @McLeanAmy.
Tuesday 10 July 2012
Samantha Brick Strikes Again
Today, the jouranlist Samantha Brick has revealed taht she regularly checks her husbands phone, emails and voicemails. In her account the reason for this is to make sure that her husband isn't receiving any unwanted female attention.
You would think that her husband must be a ladies man for Samantha to even think like this, however, he is the complete opposite. Personally, I haven't met him myself but from how Samantha has described him he is a typical man that works hard to provide for his family and has no time for modern technology as he doesn't have the slightest clue on how to use the devices.
Samantha says that she trusts her husband completely, but she is fearful of other women and their intentions towards her husband. However, surely Samantha is contradicting herself here, how can she claim to trust her husband 100% but still snoop through his personal things? To me, it doesn't make sense because the way I see it is this- marriage is about trust and commitment. Where two people who love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together are able to trust each other.
One man that Samantha mentions as to why she checks her husbands phone is because of the scandal between Vernon Kay and his series of sext messages with a model he met in a night club. This being something that happened two years ago is still being dragged up now and I am sure that Vernon and Tess have moved on and began to rebuild that trust.
For Sam, she says how it all begins witha simple chat on a social networking site- a 'poke' on FaceBook or Retweet on Twitter to begin an affair. This could be the case for some people, but that doesn't go to say that people on social networking sites are the cause of affairs. I disgaree with the way that Samantha has placed the blame on women. It takes two to tango. So while a woman may be doing all the flirting, it doesn't take a lot for a man to resist temptation and discredit the remarks that she is making.
I have nothing against Samantha Brick as I am not one to judge her but I just think that she needs to produce stronger articles that people can read and relate to.
You would think that her husband must be a ladies man for Samantha to even think like this, however, he is the complete opposite. Personally, I haven't met him myself but from how Samantha has described him he is a typical man that works hard to provide for his family and has no time for modern technology as he doesn't have the slightest clue on how to use the devices.
Samantha says that she trusts her husband completely, but she is fearful of other women and their intentions towards her husband. However, surely Samantha is contradicting herself here, how can she claim to trust her husband 100% but still snoop through his personal things? To me, it doesn't make sense because the way I see it is this- marriage is about trust and commitment. Where two people who love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together are able to trust each other.
One man that Samantha mentions as to why she checks her husbands phone is because of the scandal between Vernon Kay and his series of sext messages with a model he met in a night club. This being something that happened two years ago is still being dragged up now and I am sure that Vernon and Tess have moved on and began to rebuild that trust.
For Sam, she says how it all begins witha simple chat on a social networking site- a 'poke' on FaceBook or Retweet on Twitter to begin an affair. This could be the case for some people, but that doesn't go to say that people on social networking sites are the cause of affairs. I disgaree with the way that Samantha has placed the blame on women. It takes two to tango. So while a woman may be doing all the flirting, it doesn't take a lot for a man to resist temptation and discredit the remarks that she is making.
I have nothing against Samantha Brick as I am not one to judge her but I just think that she needs to produce stronger articles that people can read and relate to.
GCSE To O-Levels
There has been speculation in the media about the education system changing and how the standard GCSE'S are changing into O-levels as they have become easy for students to pass and they think that O-Levels would be a better way to challenge and stimulate students minds. Personally, I think that changing GCSE'S to O-Levls is a ridicule thing to do, being a teenager myself I know how hard it was going through the stress leading up to my final GCSE exams.
Schools are great in preparing students for their exams as they know how important they are however with O-Levels they are much harder to achieve than GCSE'S. Some students already find the whole dynamics of GCSE'S tough, so why would anyone want to put young students under more strain of passing these life changing exams? It just doesn't make any sense to how this is going to help young students in achieveing the best results possible.
What with the economic defall it's hard enough finding a job that pays a reasonable amount, now with the hardship of O-Levels where does the leave future generations in finding a job? Children should not be defined by letters on a piece of paper, they should be given the chance to prove themselves and how people what they are made of. Society is too fixated on classes and trends that if one is unique they are seen as 'weird' or a 'freak' because they stand out from the crowd. I believe that if someone has a dream, then grades shouldn't stand in the way of that they should chase what they believe in.
Schools are great in preparing students for their exams as they know how important they are however with O-Levels they are much harder to achieve than GCSE'S. Some students already find the whole dynamics of GCSE'S tough, so why would anyone want to put young students under more strain of passing these life changing exams? It just doesn't make any sense to how this is going to help young students in achieveing the best results possible.
What with the economic defall it's hard enough finding a job that pays a reasonable amount, now with the hardship of O-Levels where does the leave future generations in finding a job? Children should not be defined by letters on a piece of paper, they should be given the chance to prove themselves and how people what they are made of. Society is too fixated on classes and trends that if one is unique they are seen as 'weird' or a 'freak' because they stand out from the crowd. I believe that if someone has a dream, then grades shouldn't stand in the way of that they should chase what they believe in.
Sunday 17 June 2012
Jay-J Garrett
Jay-J Garrett talks about his father, finding £100,000 and role models.
How does it feel to have Benedict as your father?
It's pretty cool I enjoy living with him were not gay as many people would think and I don't get involved with his porn work. We have a strict father and son relationship. I haven't actually had a proper father figure in my life so I look up to dad a lot and he's always there for me when I need to talk about stuff or if I need help, I know I can always talk to him about anything and I know he will always be there for me when I need him.
What is it about Benedict that makes him such a good dad?
Well, he's young he's only 32 years old and he used to teach teenagers my age at school so he understands how it is to be a teenager. He does like to have fun he's pretty funny, he's accents and impressions are just ace. He's also open minded so he's not quick to judge people. He's understanding and educated. He's young as I say so he's not a boring old man! My mates love talking to him about their problems and he's always up for a laugh with them.
How do you feel about your dads profession?
I'm not fazed with what he does. My mates think it's cool, he's never done any porn at home so it's ok, I've never seen him in a porn film. If he is editing a video or is doing anything to do with porn in his bedroom then he let's me know and tells me if I do want to come talk to him then to knock on the door and I have done some times do he's turned the screen on the computer and then let's me in his room. The only thing I don't like about it is when people assume me and dad are gay. We're not, we just have a really strong father and son relationship.
As Benedict is in the Big Brother house, what do you think he would bring to the house?
I think he's going to bring in a lot of excitement and knowledge, he's going to keep himself to himself and stay true to himself. I think if he does like anyone and does gain trust and a friendship then he will stick up for them. I think he will be a little mischievous. I also think he's going to keep a little discipline and he may act a little like a teacher if the other house mates and not behaving well but I think he's going to do well, the only thing that I think will go against him is his age, he's the oldest house member there so that could be something but apart from that I think he's got a really good chance of winning.
How do you deal with negative criticism about your dad?
I have had negative criticism since my dads been on the show, I have had people trying to send me nude pictures of my dad. I have never seen my dad naked and don't want to! But with what people have been saying on Twitter I have gave them a warning which normally is enough then they don't mention or send me anything that I don't want them to but if they ignore the second warning then they get blocked and on BlackBerry Messenger I just block and delete but overall I have had a lot of positive messages sent to me and I think all the fans out there are amazing.
If you found £100,000 what would the first thing you would spend it on and why?
Well, if I found that much money I would probably hand it in and get a reward I doubt I'd want to send it if someone has lost it! But if I could keep it or had that much amount of money I would probably spend it on taking my dad on holiday and buying him a new house and car or just give it all to him as a way of saying thank you for everything he has done for me since I have moved in with him and thanks for being a dad not just a foster dad but a proper dad and actually being there for me.
Do you consider your dad as a role model, if so why?
Yes I do, he's an amazing person, he's kind, he can never say no, he's always there for me and his friends. he's really intelligent, he's a role model to loads of people around the world, he's a role model to kids at school. He's not a person to easily get frustrated, he's not one to give up he's always positive and he has given me so much confidence to do what I want in life. He's always backed me whenever I needed to do something- living with him I really believe I can do whatever I want in life and living with my real parents I didn't have that boost.
Do you think that Benedict will find it hard being away from you- especially as today is fathers day?
I think so, I miss him loads. We spend loads of time together whenever he has to go away for a couple of weeks or days, when he comes back we always go out. I did try to get a message to him just saying happy fathers day but unfortunately I couldn't do so that sucks.
Sunday 20 May 2012
High School
This Thursday marks the end of an era for me- I officially finish high school. After five years, of tears, tantrums and togetherness I have reached the start of my life.
When starting high school, I chose to go to an all girls school, now I know what you must be thinking- how can I have made such a decision? But in all honesty, it was one of the best choices I have ever made. I wanted to go somewhere completely different from my peers to essentially 'find myself' and I think it is safe to say that I have 'found myself'.
At first it wasn't easy, as I was so used to mixed classes and beating the boys at sports however as I made friends things got easier for me. I'm the type of girl who would rather play football then apply some lip gloss, I don't know why but it's just who I am. I have met some awesome people who have become not only friends for life but some of them I consider as siblings. It's those relationships that make school life easier.
I've had the same form tutor for five years- Simon. Simon has been a pleasure to work with. He's charisma and consideration just oozes from his personality. I know that he has had it tough but he's never lost hope or given up on anyone, for this I think that he is the best teacher I have had. If you are reading this Simon, I hope that you keep calm and carry on smiling. Don't let the stresses of life pull you down because you are stronger than that.
As I take my final exams, I look back on my life and think 'wow, you've made it'. I've had incredible support from my family, friends, teachers and tweeters which I cannot begin to thank you enough. It's the wisdom and advice that has help me overcome difficult situations. I will do my very best in all that I do as that is all I can do. I shall keep you all updated on further opportunities life brings.
For any questions, feel free to Tweet me @NatashaK18.
When starting high school, I chose to go to an all girls school, now I know what you must be thinking- how can I have made such a decision? But in all honesty, it was one of the best choices I have ever made. I wanted to go somewhere completely different from my peers to essentially 'find myself' and I think it is safe to say that I have 'found myself'.
At first it wasn't easy, as I was so used to mixed classes and beating the boys at sports however as I made friends things got easier for me. I'm the type of girl who would rather play football then apply some lip gloss, I don't know why but it's just who I am. I have met some awesome people who have become not only friends for life but some of them I consider as siblings. It's those relationships that make school life easier.
I've had the same form tutor for five years- Simon. Simon has been a pleasure to work with. He's charisma and consideration just oozes from his personality. I know that he has had it tough but he's never lost hope or given up on anyone, for this I think that he is the best teacher I have had. If you are reading this Simon, I hope that you keep calm and carry on smiling. Don't let the stresses of life pull you down because you are stronger than that.
As I take my final exams, I look back on my life and think 'wow, you've made it'. I've had incredible support from my family, friends, teachers and tweeters which I cannot begin to thank you enough. It's the wisdom and advice that has help me overcome difficult situations. I will do my very best in all that I do as that is all I can do. I shall keep you all updated on further opportunities life brings.
For any questions, feel free to Tweet me @NatashaK18.
Saturday 5 May 2012
Samantha Brick
Recently, Samamtha Brick wrote an article called 'Women are jealous of me' the article was about Samantha explaining why other women are "jealous" of her because she is beautiful. I'm not going to start slating Samantha as I think that everyone is beautiful no matter what you look like and no-one can ever tell you different.
Samantha claims that men go out of their way to impress her by paying for her train ticket and buying her champagne because of the way she looks. I do agree that your looks can get you very far however this depends on how you use your power. Someone shouldn't be somewhere because they are pretty or because they think they are superior from someone. Someone should be where they are because they have worked hard to get there and have done there best in life. If you're beautiful and have minimum intelligence then you know what the correct job would be however most intelligent people get under looked due to their appearance. I think the reason for this is because we all have the regular stereotype of "nerds and geeks" wearing glasses, having spots, greasy hair and braces. This image needs to be scraped I mean look at Carol Vorderman she is one beautiful woman who has achieved an incredible amount and is a humble woman.
The only thing that I agree with was when Samantha stated that "women are offended by other women that are prettier than them." I can admit that even I envy girls who are prettier however it's not because I am jealous is the fact that they use their power in the wrong way- they use it to manipulate people and use people. Being able to recognise this just makes me and other people better than them. Not all women are threatened by prettier women, this can be taken into desperate measures and is a perfect example of teenagers self- harming and suffering from anorexia. Gaining confidence and self-esteem can be increasingly difficult to build especially for young girls.
I think that we just all need to remember that regardless of your intelligence, age, race or culture you ARE beautiful and any one is lucky to have you in their life.
Samantha claims that men go out of their way to impress her by paying for her train ticket and buying her champagne because of the way she looks. I do agree that your looks can get you very far however this depends on how you use your power. Someone shouldn't be somewhere because they are pretty or because they think they are superior from someone. Someone should be where they are because they have worked hard to get there and have done there best in life. If you're beautiful and have minimum intelligence then you know what the correct job would be however most intelligent people get under looked due to their appearance. I think the reason for this is because we all have the regular stereotype of "nerds and geeks" wearing glasses, having spots, greasy hair and braces. This image needs to be scraped I mean look at Carol Vorderman she is one beautiful woman who has achieved an incredible amount and is a humble woman.
The only thing that I agree with was when Samantha stated that "women are offended by other women that are prettier than them." I can admit that even I envy girls who are prettier however it's not because I am jealous is the fact that they use their power in the wrong way- they use it to manipulate people and use people. Being able to recognise this just makes me and other people better than them. Not all women are threatened by prettier women, this can be taken into desperate measures and is a perfect example of teenagers self- harming and suffering from anorexia. Gaining confidence and self-esteem can be increasingly difficult to build especially for young girls.
I think that we just all need to remember that regardless of your intelligence, age, race or culture you ARE beautiful and any one is lucky to have you in their life.
Sunday 29 April 2012
Ben Shaw
Ben talks about technology, having £100,000 and Ronda Rousey.
How has life changed since you were growing up?
Well I think the biggest change is undoubtedly technology. Mobile phones are the landmark change that took real effect when I was about 15. Before if you rang someone's house and they weren't there then that was that, no friend for the day. Now we have so many different mediums of communication and there all available with a simple reach into our pockets. Messages that are written instead of spoken create an extra level of detachment. The other main change to society is that people now feel they can really be who they want to be. People these days feel more than free to be different, in fact they embrace it. When you add these two changes together you get a much faster, freer Britain.
What are your thoughts on society today?
It hasn't changed dramatically so much just sped up. I really like today's people, they are so much more accepting and far less confrontational. People consider other peoples feelings more these days. The one problem with that is that some people fail to act. Mainly I'm talking about younger kids and children. If I see kids up to no good I don't know how to behave where as when I was young and up to no good people would be straight over giving you a good telling off. I'm so proud of society as a whole today but if I had to think of negative points it would be drugs. Alcohol is especially different since the licencing laws changed. Today at night our streets are littered with zombie looking young people who have had way, way too much to drink and what's worse is it seems to be acceptable.
Some say happiness if hard to find, what are your thoughts on that?
Happiness is easy to find, it's keeping it that's the problem. Go to the fridge eat a bit of chocolate and you're happy. So happiness is easy to find... It's in the fridge. Problem is that feeling soon evaporates into nothing again. I really think that happiness is a choice, you can wake up everyday like it's Christmas morning if you truly learn to appreciate all the great things that you have. I'm not saying I do. But sometimes if I have a nightmare and I wake up I'm so happy for the life I have, I just wish I could hold onto that feeling. I think love in any form is important too, but the same rules apply. You have to appreciate it everyday.
What do you think are your strengths?
My modesty.
If someone gave you the choice of having £100,000 or being able to see into the future would one would you choose and why?
Hmm well I wouldn't want to see my own future as I like surprises. So I would take the money in that case. But if it was to see everything else then I would. If the world was good then I could relax about the future and if the world was terrible then I could do my up most to change whatever direction we took to get there. Also I could come back and make some accumulative bets that would me much much more than £100,000 then I would share it with you.
How much does family mean to you?
Biologically not that much. I know that might sound bad to some people but I think that the real family is the one you create for yourself. My friends are my family, that doesn't exclude my family at all, my Dad is my best mate. It's just I think as humans we should treat EVERYONE equally. I refuse to give an exception because we have similar DNA. I judge people on who they are as a person and not what genes they are made up from.
If you could marry anyone in the world who would it be and why?
This will probably have changed by next week but at the moment I would have to say Ronda Rousey. She is an Olympic gold medallist in Judo and is strike force women's MMA champion. She is an unstoppable fighter and yet extremely beautiful. She is what young women need in answer to all this super skinny-sell your soul to be celebrity culture. She is super healthy, mentally strong, independent and not in it for the fame or money, just to fight and be somebody.
How do you overcome fear?
You don't, you learn to respect it, then manipulate it to your advantage, then you go back and face it. Remember it's only bravery if you are scared. Everybody gets scared, some deny and learn to hide it, but there scared too. There are many things in life to be afraid of, but the biggest one of all is living life in fear.
You seem to know a lot about life at such a young age, why do you think this is?
Stephen Fry says you don't have to be clever, wonder all the time and Now i have an iPhone I can quench some of that thirst for answers. Before if I heard a word that I wasn't sure about I would never have gone and gotten a dictionary, but now I can just Google a definition in seconds. It's a wonderful time for wondering.
For more information or questions as always follow Ben on Twitter @MMABENNYJ
How has life changed since you were growing up?
Well I think the biggest change is undoubtedly technology. Mobile phones are the landmark change that took real effect when I was about 15. Before if you rang someone's house and they weren't there then that was that, no friend for the day. Now we have so many different mediums of communication and there all available with a simple reach into our pockets. Messages that are written instead of spoken create an extra level of detachment. The other main change to society is that people now feel they can really be who they want to be. People these days feel more than free to be different, in fact they embrace it. When you add these two changes together you get a much faster, freer Britain.
What are your thoughts on society today?
It hasn't changed dramatically so much just sped up. I really like today's people, they are so much more accepting and far less confrontational. People consider other peoples feelings more these days. The one problem with that is that some people fail to act. Mainly I'm talking about younger kids and children. If I see kids up to no good I don't know how to behave where as when I was young and up to no good people would be straight over giving you a good telling off. I'm so proud of society as a whole today but if I had to think of negative points it would be drugs. Alcohol is especially different since the licencing laws changed. Today at night our streets are littered with zombie looking young people who have had way, way too much to drink and what's worse is it seems to be acceptable.
Some say happiness if hard to find, what are your thoughts on that?
Happiness is easy to find, it's keeping it that's the problem. Go to the fridge eat a bit of chocolate and you're happy. So happiness is easy to find... It's in the fridge. Problem is that feeling soon evaporates into nothing again. I really think that happiness is a choice, you can wake up everyday like it's Christmas morning if you truly learn to appreciate all the great things that you have. I'm not saying I do. But sometimes if I have a nightmare and I wake up I'm so happy for the life I have, I just wish I could hold onto that feeling. I think love in any form is important too, but the same rules apply. You have to appreciate it everyday.
What do you think are your strengths?
My modesty.
If someone gave you the choice of having £100,000 or being able to see into the future would one would you choose and why?
Hmm well I wouldn't want to see my own future as I like surprises. So I would take the money in that case. But if it was to see everything else then I would. If the world was good then I could relax about the future and if the world was terrible then I could do my up most to change whatever direction we took to get there. Also I could come back and make some accumulative bets that would me much much more than £100,000 then I would share it with you.
How much does family mean to you?
Biologically not that much. I know that might sound bad to some people but I think that the real family is the one you create for yourself. My friends are my family, that doesn't exclude my family at all, my Dad is my best mate. It's just I think as humans we should treat EVERYONE equally. I refuse to give an exception because we have similar DNA. I judge people on who they are as a person and not what genes they are made up from.
If you could marry anyone in the world who would it be and why?
This will probably have changed by next week but at the moment I would have to say Ronda Rousey. She is an Olympic gold medallist in Judo and is strike force women's MMA champion. She is an unstoppable fighter and yet extremely beautiful. She is what young women need in answer to all this super skinny-sell your soul to be celebrity culture. She is super healthy, mentally strong, independent and not in it for the fame or money, just to fight and be somebody.
How do you overcome fear?
You don't, you learn to respect it, then manipulate it to your advantage, then you go back and face it. Remember it's only bravery if you are scared. Everybody gets scared, some deny and learn to hide it, but there scared too. There are many things in life to be afraid of, but the biggest one of all is living life in fear.
You seem to know a lot about life at such a young age, why do you think this is?
Stephen Fry says you don't have to be clever, wonder all the time and Now i have an iPhone I can quench some of that thirst for answers. Before if I heard a word that I wasn't sure about I would never have gone and gotten a dictionary, but now I can just Google a definition in seconds. It's a wonderful time for wondering.
For more information or questions as always follow Ben on Twitter @MMABENNYJ
Sunday 18 March 2012
Question Time
I randomly selected five people to ask me questions that they have always wanted to know the answer to.
Do you have a life plan if so, what is it?
Well, in all honesty my life plan is to aim for the best. In life not everything goes as planned but I think it's these moments that I work extremely hard to overcome. I don't really have a plan, I just take each day as it comes and make each day productive.
Who inspires you?
The one and only person that has ALWAYS inspired me is my mum. For her to have brought up six children on her own that alone is inspiring and we have been through some tough times in life but my mum has never given up and has taught us the real value of life.
What is your view on life after death?
That's a tough question, I do believe in life after death that you either go to heaven or hell. Some people try too hard to be "perfect" and they need to realise that no-one is perfect and never will be, also some people need to really think deep and hard about their religion because some tend to abuse that power and authority.
What's the difference between a chicken and a hen?
Chicken is a species of birds, and in that species are two families, the hens and roosters. A hen is a female chicken.
If you could have dinner with any famous person that is dead who would it be and why?
That would have be to PC David Rathband simply because to me he was a hero.
If you could get a part in any TV show which one would you choose and why?
It would either be Casualty, or EastEnders. I have watched EastEnders for many years and would love to add some youth and personality to the show. also I would like to portray a respectable and intellectual black girl as the stereotype for black people is becoming ludacris especially in this generation. Casualty, because I love the high drama and want to go into the medical field and I love Michael French so it would be the great opportunity to meet him. Besides them, I have applied for Junior Apprentice so watch this space!
Do you think positive sexism/racism is a good or bad thing considering it should be about character and actions?
Well I think you have answered your own questions there however I think that positive racism is a bad thing because living in this world the amount of abuse people receive is overwhelming and saying something like this could trigger a serious case. For example, someone stating that they 'love ALL black people' could come across as racist and may offend many people so I think it's just about being careful in what you say.
If over night the empowerment of women happened globally what would the world be like?
I think that the world would be... a better place. There would be cheaper clothing prices and fashion will control both men and women which could help some people (even a few celebrities). However, it would do more bad than good for women I think there will be too much fuss that's not needed for and the country could go into economic decline.
Where do you see yourself in ten years time?
In ten years time I see myself having a professional job and earning some cash but most of all I just want to be happy.
What is your favourite book?
Favourite book... either Of Mice and Men or Michael McIntyre's Live and Laughing. Michael McIntyre is an amazing comedian and his life story intrigues me every time. He makes me laugh and his story is very funny and the seriousness of some issues are just heart-breaking.
Do you have a life plan if so, what is it?
Well, in all honesty my life plan is to aim for the best. In life not everything goes as planned but I think it's these moments that I work extremely hard to overcome. I don't really have a plan, I just take each day as it comes and make each day productive.
Who inspires you?
The one and only person that has ALWAYS inspired me is my mum. For her to have brought up six children on her own that alone is inspiring and we have been through some tough times in life but my mum has never given up and has taught us the real value of life.
What is your view on life after death?
That's a tough question, I do believe in life after death that you either go to heaven or hell. Some people try too hard to be "perfect" and they need to realise that no-one is perfect and never will be, also some people need to really think deep and hard about their religion because some tend to abuse that power and authority.
What's the difference between a chicken and a hen?
Chicken is a species of birds, and in that species are two families, the hens and roosters. A hen is a female chicken.
If you could have dinner with any famous person that is dead who would it be and why?
That would have be to PC David Rathband simply because to me he was a hero.
If you could get a part in any TV show which one would you choose and why?
It would either be Casualty, or EastEnders. I have watched EastEnders for many years and would love to add some youth and personality to the show. also I would like to portray a respectable and intellectual black girl as the stereotype for black people is becoming ludacris especially in this generation. Casualty, because I love the high drama and want to go into the medical field and I love Michael French so it would be the great opportunity to meet him. Besides them, I have applied for Junior Apprentice so watch this space!
Do you think positive sexism/racism is a good or bad thing considering it should be about character and actions?
Well I think you have answered your own questions there however I think that positive racism is a bad thing because living in this world the amount of abuse people receive is overwhelming and saying something like this could trigger a serious case. For example, someone stating that they 'love ALL black people' could come across as racist and may offend many people so I think it's just about being careful in what you say.
If over night the empowerment of women happened globally what would the world be like?
I think that the world would be... a better place. There would be cheaper clothing prices and fashion will control both men and women which could help some people (even a few celebrities). However, it would do more bad than good for women I think there will be too much fuss that's not needed for and the country could go into economic decline.
Where do you see yourself in ten years time?
In ten years time I see myself having a professional job and earning some cash but most of all I just want to be happy.
What is your favourite book?
Favourite book... either Of Mice and Men or Michael McIntyre's Live and Laughing. Michael McIntyre is an amazing comedian and his life story intrigues me every time. He makes me laugh and his story is very funny and the seriousness of some issues are just heart-breaking.
Sunday 11 March 2012
Make Kony Famous 2012
There has been many speculation over the truth in the leader of Joseph Kony and his motives however I for one believe that this is happening and before it's too late I would like to draw people's attention to the seriousness of the matter.
Joseph Kony is an army leader of the Lord's Resistance Army (LRA) in Uganda and he believes that what he is doing is right. Kony leads a terrible army that is connected with the 'Invisible Children' which is a horrifying attack where Kony sends his men to kidnap young children in their homes and he forces them to work for him, by working for him this means going out into battle and killing the opposition as well as killing their own parents. He also uses young girls as sex slaves for his pleasure and desire and they have no say in what happens. To think what these children would do just to have the luxuries that we have breaks my heart.
When watching the video about Kony, the young man called Jacob said something that will stay in my heart he said that he wishes that he was dead because now he is living he has nothing, his brother was killed and he can remember each fine detail of the killing and he has a dream of becoming a lawyer but without any money to pay the school fees then he cannot fulfil his dream. With this I begin to think of how many children feel the same way as Jacob, they would like to become something but once they are captured by Kony they have no way out and that is their life.
The plan is to make Joseph Kony famous, not for his army to multiply but for people to be aware of what this man is doing and hopefully in the near future be stopped- resorting in a prison sentence. I would like for the world to become a better place although this is not easy it may seem like words but watching the video, pledging or donating some money could start to make a HUGE difference in finding Kony and giving children the chance to have a childhood and to be educated. If only one person sees this and tells one other person then I will be happy because society today is leading by the connection of social networking sites. When one person tells the next this would be spread like wildfire and would generally make Kony famous.
Here are the possible links where you can donate or read more information about the man that is Joseph Kony
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4MnpzG5Sqc
http://www.kony2012.com/
http://www.facebook.com/Kony2012Stop
https://twitter.com/#!/KONY2012NYC
Joseph Kony is an army leader of the Lord's Resistance Army (LRA) in Uganda and he believes that what he is doing is right. Kony leads a terrible army that is connected with the 'Invisible Children' which is a horrifying attack where Kony sends his men to kidnap young children in their homes and he forces them to work for him, by working for him this means going out into battle and killing the opposition as well as killing their own parents. He also uses young girls as sex slaves for his pleasure and desire and they have no say in what happens. To think what these children would do just to have the luxuries that we have breaks my heart.
When watching the video about Kony, the young man called Jacob said something that will stay in my heart he said that he wishes that he was dead because now he is living he has nothing, his brother was killed and he can remember each fine detail of the killing and he has a dream of becoming a lawyer but without any money to pay the school fees then he cannot fulfil his dream. With this I begin to think of how many children feel the same way as Jacob, they would like to become something but once they are captured by Kony they have no way out and that is their life.
The plan is to make Joseph Kony famous, not for his army to multiply but for people to be aware of what this man is doing and hopefully in the near future be stopped- resorting in a prison sentence. I would like for the world to become a better place although this is not easy it may seem like words but watching the video, pledging or donating some money could start to make a HUGE difference in finding Kony and giving children the chance to have a childhood and to be educated. If only one person sees this and tells one other person then I will be happy because society today is leading by the connection of social networking sites. When one person tells the next this would be spread like wildfire and would generally make Kony famous.
Here are the possible links where you can donate or read more information about the man that is Joseph Kony
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4MnpzG5Sqc
http://www.kony2012.com/
http://www.facebook.com/Kony2012Stop
https://twitter.com/#!/KONY2012NYC
Saturday 25 February 2012
Thank You
Just a short piece to share my happiness.
For those of you that read my blog piece called 'Miscarriages' you will be aware of what my sister went through and why I felt so passionately about such a topic. I would just like to take this opportunity to thank all those that had been thinking or praying for my sister, she has been through such a tough journey however she received a miracle.
On Wednesday 22nd February at 3:15am, my wonderful sister gave birth to a baby girl called Tianna she is a healthy happy baby and is now in a complete family. My sister and her husband are over the moon at their little bundle of joy and on my behalf they would like to thank everyone who has supported them. They continue to praise and thank God for what he has given them and my sister is living proof that things DO get better and that giving up wasn't an option for her.
Once again, thank you to all those that have supported me.
For those of you that read my blog piece called 'Miscarriages' you will be aware of what my sister went through and why I felt so passionately about such a topic. I would just like to take this opportunity to thank all those that had been thinking or praying for my sister, she has been through such a tough journey however she received a miracle.
On Wednesday 22nd February at 3:15am, my wonderful sister gave birth to a baby girl called Tianna she is a healthy happy baby and is now in a complete family. My sister and her husband are over the moon at their little bundle of joy and on my behalf they would like to thank everyone who has supported them. They continue to praise and thank God for what he has given them and my sister is living proof that things DO get better and that giving up wasn't an option for her.
Once again, thank you to all those that have supported me.
Wednesday 1 February 2012
James Edgington
James Edgington talks about being on Britain's Got Talent,Dame Judy Dench and his tennis skills. For people that don't recognise you, how would you describe yourself?
I'm confident, smiley and energetic. I'm not tall and not too small. I've got brown eyes, trendy mid-length hair and I guess I'm easy going. I guess locally I'm known as 'Son' off BGT or that lad from BGT.
How has being on Britain's Got Talent changed your life?
BGT hasn't changed my life in an immediate sense but it has given me some notoriety with the media and public to actively pursue other avenues of work. BGT mainly gave me some fantastic training I had never really been through before. The chance to perform live on national television, work with Yvie Burnett who is just the most brilliant vocal coach and has worked with top stars in the world. Nigel Wright was our musical director and he is amazing. We also learnt a lot about interviews and live television and radio. Even though I trained as an actor I have never really experienced anything like that on such a big scale.
I understand that you work with some charities, could you expand on what services they provide?
Yes, I am the director and founder of The Jennifer Charity. Jennifer provides support for widowed fathers and children, which is the only charity in the UK that deals with this specifically. The needs of widowed fathers and children bereaved of their mother are quite specific not to mention psychologically difficult and we aim to help with this as an ongoing process.
You have done many functions but which has been your favourite?
Last year I got the chance to perform both on my own and with my dad on the West End. It was a concert arranged for my charity by a London producer. It was a dream come true to perform these and I'm hoping to be back in a show or play someday.
If you were given the opportunity to sing or act with ANYONE who would you choose and why?
That's difficult. I would love to act alongside someone like Dame Judy Dench as I think being in the presence of her would make me raise my game and I love to be challenged like that when I'm working. As for singing alongside anyone I think my dream duo would have to be with a singer called Jill Scott who is my personal idol, a great actress as well. In more commercial sense I have always wanted to duet with someone like Christina Aguilera or a great like Aretha Franklin... sorry I can't pin one down.
What do you hope for in the future?
I am hoping to work more extensively in TV and eventually film. I have a few TV projects lined up and currently being mentored by a great director. I have also really enjoyed the presenting work I have been doing over the past year so that is something I would like to develop. Writing is something I have a huge interest in as well so the possibilities are endless. I would also like to get back into the studio and write/record some more songs so that is another project that is pending... it's fitting everything in that seem to be the problem.
Do you have any hidden talents, if so what are they?
I wouldn't say I have hidden talents... if I find something I am good at I usually expose it and run with it but I do play tennis at a pretty decent level and trained as a coach when I was in my late teens. People who know me are aware of this so it's not so hidden but I suppose it's something that I don't mention too much.
What's the one thing you can't leave the house without?
My iPhone! Absolutely not. Mainly because I play music through it in my car but also I need it for emails, called and Twitter of course!
What has been the highlight of your career so far?
The highlight was performing on the West End at the Lyric Theatre on Shaftesbury Avenue. It was fantastic and something that I will never forget.
What makes you happy?
Performing in some way be it singing or acting... there is an escapism that you can't get from anything else.
To Find out more about James follow him on Twitter @JamesEdgington
Sunday 22 January 2012
Danyl Johnson
Danyl Johnson talks about superman, being a show off and never giving up.
How have things changed since you were on the X Factor?
Well since 2009 I have been lucky enough to of played quite a few shows all over the world, Nashville, Italy and Portugal. X Factor helps you to get out there and perform to a lot of people. II had the chance to play many shows that I could buy my mum a house, which is the best thing I've ever done. You've got to love mum!!!
How are you dealing with the fame?
The best way is to not think your famous, if people come up to me I just chat to them like I would to a friend. I get told off by my tour manager for chatting for too long at shows.
Personally, I thought you were going to win X Factor and was completely shocked when you were voted off, what was going through your mind at that time?
To be honest, I was happy I got that far, I didn't mind. At the point it was anyone's competition. We had a great year of talent with the likes of Joe, Stacey and Mr Murs(we have to call him that now, lol diva). 4th place is a good place.
What do you see yourself doing in ten years time?
I would love to be writing songs for other acts then and live in a farm, silly I know but I've always liked the thought of having chickens.
Who is your favourite superhero and why?
I'm a HUGE Superman fan. I even have a tattoo on my right arm. I guess I have always like superman because I like that he can fly away whenever he wants.
Is there anything you would of done differently?
I guess I would of chilled out a bit, the show can be quite stressful at times. You miss your friends and family so much and also your free time.
What is the one thing you cannot live without?
My dog Darcie, she's 10 months old and I love her.
What projects do you have lined up for the future?
Funny you should ask, I've been writing my album in Nashville and Scotland, so hopefully my album, fingers crossed.
Growing up, how did you know that music was the industry you wanted to go in?
Well at first I wanted to be a fireman, haha. But I joined a theatre company when I was 9 and I knew I was a show off!!!!
Have you got any advice for upcoming singers or performers?
Never give up, the only your hope & dreams can happen if you don't give up. You only need 1 YES or 4 YESES in my case!!!!! So that will mean taking in a lot of no's.
Saturday 21 January 2012
Miscarriages
Right, before I begin I would just like to say that this is a difficult topic for me to discuss however I feel that people need more knowledge and understanding on a topic such as this.
A miscarriage can happen to anyone old or young and if it has happened to you or someone you know, you are not alone as it happens to one in five pregnancies a year. This statistic is quite horrifying just to think that out of ten pregnant woman two of them will suffer from a miscarriage. It has been found that one in four women will go through the terrible loss of a miscarriage throughout their reproductive years. I am not posting this to alarm people, I am simply doing this to raise awareness of the heartache of miscarriage and want to make a difference in what services and charities are available for those who are dealing with their loss.
As I have said before, we might all know someone who has been through a miscarriage however for those that don't they can relate to women such as Amanda Holden and Lily Allen. Amanda Holden was seven months pregnant when she lost her baby. There are many causes for miscarriages to occur however the worst thing to do is to bottle things up and not tell anyone. Of course, doctors and nurses do their best but sometimes you feel that it is not enough and start blaming yourself about how you could have done things differently, well it is this attitude that I want to change. Blaming yourself can be the worst possible thing to do however bad you feel it is not your only option.
I am aware that there are many charities making sure that they help people deal with the loss of a child through miscarriage. I want to raise money for those who have gone through miscarriages as it is something I am passionate about. Sadly, my sister has suffered from three miscarriages and is pregnant again, however this time things are different I can see that she is more positive and is glowing. I know that she will be the best possible mum she can be and give her child everything that she couldn't have. I reckon that my sister is more assured this time because she has the support and guidance of the people around her and she has more philosophy on what to do.
My idea is to raise money for women in the UK to help with further research about the causes of miscarriages but also to help and support women who go through the pain of loss of an unborn child.
I know that people may speculate about my age however I know the pain of losing a child as it has happened in my family. There are many ways of contacting me however the most efficient way is to follow me on Twitter @NatashaK18 and send me a direct message if you have any questions or want to know more about the work I will be pursuing.
A miscarriage can happen to anyone old or young and if it has happened to you or someone you know, you are not alone as it happens to one in five pregnancies a year. This statistic is quite horrifying just to think that out of ten pregnant woman two of them will suffer from a miscarriage. It has been found that one in four women will go through the terrible loss of a miscarriage throughout their reproductive years. I am not posting this to alarm people, I am simply doing this to raise awareness of the heartache of miscarriage and want to make a difference in what services and charities are available for those who are dealing with their loss.
As I have said before, we might all know someone who has been through a miscarriage however for those that don't they can relate to women such as Amanda Holden and Lily Allen. Amanda Holden was seven months pregnant when she lost her baby. There are many causes for miscarriages to occur however the worst thing to do is to bottle things up and not tell anyone. Of course, doctors and nurses do their best but sometimes you feel that it is not enough and start blaming yourself about how you could have done things differently, well it is this attitude that I want to change. Blaming yourself can be the worst possible thing to do however bad you feel it is not your only option.
I am aware that there are many charities making sure that they help people deal with the loss of a child through miscarriage. I want to raise money for those who have gone through miscarriages as it is something I am passionate about. Sadly, my sister has suffered from three miscarriages and is pregnant again, however this time things are different I can see that she is more positive and is glowing. I know that she will be the best possible mum she can be and give her child everything that she couldn't have. I reckon that my sister is more assured this time because she has the support and guidance of the people around her and she has more philosophy on what to do.
My idea is to raise money for women in the UK to help with further research about the causes of miscarriages but also to help and support women who go through the pain of loss of an unborn child.
I know that people may speculate about my age however I know the pain of losing a child as it has happened in my family. There are many ways of contacting me however the most efficient way is to follow me on Twitter @NatashaK18 and send me a direct message if you have any questions or want to know more about the work I will be pursuing.
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