Today, the jouranlist Samantha Brick has revealed taht she regularly checks her husbands phone, emails and voicemails. In her account the reason for this is to make sure that her husband isn't receiving any unwanted female attention.
You would think that her husband must be a ladies man for Samantha to even think like this, however, he is the complete opposite. Personally, I haven't met him myself but from how Samantha has described him he is a typical man that works hard to provide for his family and has no time for modern technology as he doesn't have the slightest clue on how to use the devices.
Samantha says that she trusts her husband completely, but she is fearful of other women and their intentions towards her husband. However, surely Samantha is contradicting herself here, how can she claim to trust her husband 100% but still snoop through his personal things? To me, it doesn't make sense because the way I see it is this- marriage is about trust and commitment. Where two people who love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together are able to trust each other.
One man that Samantha mentions as to why she checks her husbands phone is because of the scandal between Vernon Kay and his series of sext messages with a model he met in a night club. This being something that happened two years ago is still being dragged up now and I am sure that Vernon and Tess have moved on and began to rebuild that trust.
For Sam, she says how it all begins witha simple chat on a social networking site- a 'poke' on FaceBook or Retweet on Twitter to begin an affair. This could be the case for some people, but that doesn't go to say that people on social networking sites are the cause of affairs. I disgaree with the way that Samantha has placed the blame on women. It takes two to tango. So while a woman may be doing all the flirting, it doesn't take a lot for a man to resist temptation and discredit the remarks that she is making.
I have nothing against Samantha Brick as I am not one to judge her but I just think that she needs to produce stronger articles that people can read and relate to.
Tuesday, 10 July 2012
GCSE To O-Levels
There has been speculation in the media about the education system changing and how the standard GCSE'S are changing into O-levels as they have become easy for students to pass and they think that O-Levels would be a better way to challenge and stimulate students minds. Personally, I think that changing GCSE'S to O-Levls is a ridicule thing to do, being a teenager myself I know how hard it was going through the stress leading up to my final GCSE exams.
Schools are great in preparing students for their exams as they know how important they are however with O-Levels they are much harder to achieve than GCSE'S. Some students already find the whole dynamics of GCSE'S tough, so why would anyone want to put young students under more strain of passing these life changing exams? It just doesn't make any sense to how this is going to help young students in achieveing the best results possible.
What with the economic defall it's hard enough finding a job that pays a reasonable amount, now with the hardship of O-Levels where does the leave future generations in finding a job? Children should not be defined by letters on a piece of paper, they should be given the chance to prove themselves and how people what they are made of. Society is too fixated on classes and trends that if one is unique they are seen as 'weird' or a 'freak' because they stand out from the crowd. I believe that if someone has a dream, then grades shouldn't stand in the way of that they should chase what they believe in.
Schools are great in preparing students for their exams as they know how important they are however with O-Levels they are much harder to achieve than GCSE'S. Some students already find the whole dynamics of GCSE'S tough, so why would anyone want to put young students under more strain of passing these life changing exams? It just doesn't make any sense to how this is going to help young students in achieveing the best results possible.
What with the economic defall it's hard enough finding a job that pays a reasonable amount, now with the hardship of O-Levels where does the leave future generations in finding a job? Children should not be defined by letters on a piece of paper, they should be given the chance to prove themselves and how people what they are made of. Society is too fixated on classes and trends that if one is unique they are seen as 'weird' or a 'freak' because they stand out from the crowd. I believe that if someone has a dream, then grades shouldn't stand in the way of that they should chase what they believe in.
Sunday, 17 June 2012
Jay-J Garrett
Jay-J Garrett talks about his father, finding £100,000 and role models.
How does it feel to have Benedict as your father?
It's pretty cool I enjoy living with him were not gay as many people would think and I don't get involved with his porn work. We have a strict father and son relationship. I haven't actually had a proper father figure in my life so I look up to dad a lot and he's always there for me when I need to talk about stuff or if I need help, I know I can always talk to him about anything and I know he will always be there for me when I need him.
What is it about Benedict that makes him such a good dad?
Well, he's young he's only 32 years old and he used to teach teenagers my age at school so he understands how it is to be a teenager. He does like to have fun he's pretty funny, he's accents and impressions are just ace. He's also open minded so he's not quick to judge people. He's understanding and educated. He's young as I say so he's not a boring old man! My mates love talking to him about their problems and he's always up for a laugh with them.
How do you feel about your dads profession?
I'm not fazed with what he does. My mates think it's cool, he's never done any porn at home so it's ok, I've never seen him in a porn film. If he is editing a video or is doing anything to do with porn in his bedroom then he let's me know and tells me if I do want to come talk to him then to knock on the door and I have done some times do he's turned the screen on the computer and then let's me in his room. The only thing I don't like about it is when people assume me and dad are gay. We're not, we just have a really strong father and son relationship.
As Benedict is in the Big Brother house, what do you think he would bring to the house?
I think he's going to bring in a lot of excitement and knowledge, he's going to keep himself to himself and stay true to himself. I think if he does like anyone and does gain trust and a friendship then he will stick up for them. I think he will be a little mischievous. I also think he's going to keep a little discipline and he may act a little like a teacher if the other house mates and not behaving well but I think he's going to do well, the only thing that I think will go against him is his age, he's the oldest house member there so that could be something but apart from that I think he's got a really good chance of winning.
How do you deal with negative criticism about your dad?
I have had negative criticism since my dads been on the show, I have had people trying to send me nude pictures of my dad. I have never seen my dad naked and don't want to! But with what people have been saying on Twitter I have gave them a warning which normally is enough then they don't mention or send me anything that I don't want them to but if they ignore the second warning then they get blocked and on BlackBerry Messenger I just block and delete but overall I have had a lot of positive messages sent to me and I think all the fans out there are amazing.
If you found £100,000 what would the first thing you would spend it on and why?
Well, if I found that much money I would probably hand it in and get a reward I doubt I'd want to send it if someone has lost it! But if I could keep it or had that much amount of money I would probably spend it on taking my dad on holiday and buying him a new house and car or just give it all to him as a way of saying thank you for everything he has done for me since I have moved in with him and thanks for being a dad not just a foster dad but a proper dad and actually being there for me.
Do you consider your dad as a role model, if so why?
Yes I do, he's an amazing person, he's kind, he can never say no, he's always there for me and his friends. he's really intelligent, he's a role model to loads of people around the world, he's a role model to kids at school. He's not a person to easily get frustrated, he's not one to give up he's always positive and he has given me so much confidence to do what I want in life. He's always backed me whenever I needed to do something- living with him I really believe I can do whatever I want in life and living with my real parents I didn't have that boost.
Do you think that Benedict will find it hard being away from you- especially as today is fathers day?
I think so, I miss him loads. We spend loads of time together whenever he has to go away for a couple of weeks or days, when he comes back we always go out. I did try to get a message to him just saying happy fathers day but unfortunately I couldn't do so that sucks.
Sunday, 20 May 2012
High School
This Thursday marks the end of an era for me- I officially finish high school. After five years, of tears, tantrums and togetherness I have reached the start of my life.
When starting high school, I chose to go to an all girls school, now I know what you must be thinking- how can I have made such a decision? But in all honesty, it was one of the best choices I have ever made. I wanted to go somewhere completely different from my peers to essentially 'find myself' and I think it is safe to say that I have 'found myself'.
At first it wasn't easy, as I was so used to mixed classes and beating the boys at sports however as I made friends things got easier for me. I'm the type of girl who would rather play football then apply some lip gloss, I don't know why but it's just who I am. I have met some awesome people who have become not only friends for life but some of them I consider as siblings. It's those relationships that make school life easier.
I've had the same form tutor for five years- Simon. Simon has been a pleasure to work with. He's charisma and consideration just oozes from his personality. I know that he has had it tough but he's never lost hope or given up on anyone, for this I think that he is the best teacher I have had. If you are reading this Simon, I hope that you keep calm and carry on smiling. Don't let the stresses of life pull you down because you are stronger than that.
As I take my final exams, I look back on my life and think 'wow, you've made it'. I've had incredible support from my family, friends, teachers and tweeters which I cannot begin to thank you enough. It's the wisdom and advice that has help me overcome difficult situations. I will do my very best in all that I do as that is all I can do. I shall keep you all updated on further opportunities life brings.
For any questions, feel free to Tweet me @NatashaK18.
When starting high school, I chose to go to an all girls school, now I know what you must be thinking- how can I have made such a decision? But in all honesty, it was one of the best choices I have ever made. I wanted to go somewhere completely different from my peers to essentially 'find myself' and I think it is safe to say that I have 'found myself'.
At first it wasn't easy, as I was so used to mixed classes and beating the boys at sports however as I made friends things got easier for me. I'm the type of girl who would rather play football then apply some lip gloss, I don't know why but it's just who I am. I have met some awesome people who have become not only friends for life but some of them I consider as siblings. It's those relationships that make school life easier.
I've had the same form tutor for five years- Simon. Simon has been a pleasure to work with. He's charisma and consideration just oozes from his personality. I know that he has had it tough but he's never lost hope or given up on anyone, for this I think that he is the best teacher I have had. If you are reading this Simon, I hope that you keep calm and carry on smiling. Don't let the stresses of life pull you down because you are stronger than that.
As I take my final exams, I look back on my life and think 'wow, you've made it'. I've had incredible support from my family, friends, teachers and tweeters which I cannot begin to thank you enough. It's the wisdom and advice that has help me overcome difficult situations. I will do my very best in all that I do as that is all I can do. I shall keep you all updated on further opportunities life brings.
For any questions, feel free to Tweet me @NatashaK18.
Saturday, 5 May 2012
Samantha Brick
Recently, Samamtha Brick wrote an article called 'Women are jealous of me' the article was about Samantha explaining why other women are "jealous" of her because she is beautiful. I'm not going to start slating Samantha as I think that everyone is beautiful no matter what you look like and no-one can ever tell you different.
Samantha claims that men go out of their way to impress her by paying for her train ticket and buying her champagne because of the way she looks. I do agree that your looks can get you very far however this depends on how you use your power. Someone shouldn't be somewhere because they are pretty or because they think they are superior from someone. Someone should be where they are because they have worked hard to get there and have done there best in life. If you're beautiful and have minimum intelligence then you know what the correct job would be however most intelligent people get under looked due to their appearance. I think the reason for this is because we all have the regular stereotype of "nerds and geeks" wearing glasses, having spots, greasy hair and braces. This image needs to be scraped I mean look at Carol Vorderman she is one beautiful woman who has achieved an incredible amount and is a humble woman.
The only thing that I agree with was when Samantha stated that "women are offended by other women that are prettier than them." I can admit that even I envy girls who are prettier however it's not because I am jealous is the fact that they use their power in the wrong way- they use it to manipulate people and use people. Being able to recognise this just makes me and other people better than them. Not all women are threatened by prettier women, this can be taken into desperate measures and is a perfect example of teenagers self- harming and suffering from anorexia. Gaining confidence and self-esteem can be increasingly difficult to build especially for young girls.
I think that we just all need to remember that regardless of your intelligence, age, race or culture you ARE beautiful and any one is lucky to have you in their life.
Samantha claims that men go out of their way to impress her by paying for her train ticket and buying her champagne because of the way she looks. I do agree that your looks can get you very far however this depends on how you use your power. Someone shouldn't be somewhere because they are pretty or because they think they are superior from someone. Someone should be where they are because they have worked hard to get there and have done there best in life. If you're beautiful and have minimum intelligence then you know what the correct job would be however most intelligent people get under looked due to their appearance. I think the reason for this is because we all have the regular stereotype of "nerds and geeks" wearing glasses, having spots, greasy hair and braces. This image needs to be scraped I mean look at Carol Vorderman she is one beautiful woman who has achieved an incredible amount and is a humble woman.
The only thing that I agree with was when Samantha stated that "women are offended by other women that are prettier than them." I can admit that even I envy girls who are prettier however it's not because I am jealous is the fact that they use their power in the wrong way- they use it to manipulate people and use people. Being able to recognise this just makes me and other people better than them. Not all women are threatened by prettier women, this can be taken into desperate measures and is a perfect example of teenagers self- harming and suffering from anorexia. Gaining confidence and self-esteem can be increasingly difficult to build especially for young girls.
I think that we just all need to remember that regardless of your intelligence, age, race or culture you ARE beautiful and any one is lucky to have you in their life.
Sunday, 29 April 2012
Ben Shaw
Ben talks about technology, having £100,000 and Ronda Rousey.
How has life changed since you were growing up?
Well I think the biggest change is undoubtedly technology. Mobile phones are the landmark change that took real effect when I was about 15. Before if you rang someone's house and they weren't there then that was that, no friend for the day. Now we have so many different mediums of communication and there all available with a simple reach into our pockets. Messages that are written instead of spoken create an extra level of detachment. The other main change to society is that people now feel they can really be who they want to be. People these days feel more than free to be different, in fact they embrace it. When you add these two changes together you get a much faster, freer Britain.
What are your thoughts on society today?
It hasn't changed dramatically so much just sped up. I really like today's people, they are so much more accepting and far less confrontational. People consider other peoples feelings more these days. The one problem with that is that some people fail to act. Mainly I'm talking about younger kids and children. If I see kids up to no good I don't know how to behave where as when I was young and up to no good people would be straight over giving you a good telling off. I'm so proud of society as a whole today but if I had to think of negative points it would be drugs. Alcohol is especially different since the licencing laws changed. Today at night our streets are littered with zombie looking young people who have had way, way too much to drink and what's worse is it seems to be acceptable.
Some say happiness if hard to find, what are your thoughts on that?
Happiness is easy to find, it's keeping it that's the problem. Go to the fridge eat a bit of chocolate and you're happy. So happiness is easy to find... It's in the fridge. Problem is that feeling soon evaporates into nothing again. I really think that happiness is a choice, you can wake up everyday like it's Christmas morning if you truly learn to appreciate all the great things that you have. I'm not saying I do. But sometimes if I have a nightmare and I wake up I'm so happy for the life I have, I just wish I could hold onto that feeling. I think love in any form is important too, but the same rules apply. You have to appreciate it everyday.
What do you think are your strengths?
My modesty.
If someone gave you the choice of having £100,000 or being able to see into the future would one would you choose and why?
Hmm well I wouldn't want to see my own future as I like surprises. So I would take the money in that case. But if it was to see everything else then I would. If the world was good then I could relax about the future and if the world was terrible then I could do my up most to change whatever direction we took to get there. Also I could come back and make some accumulative bets that would me much much more than £100,000 then I would share it with you.
How much does family mean to you?
Biologically not that much. I know that might sound bad to some people but I think that the real family is the one you create for yourself. My friends are my family, that doesn't exclude my family at all, my Dad is my best mate. It's just I think as humans we should treat EVERYONE equally. I refuse to give an exception because we have similar DNA. I judge people on who they are as a person and not what genes they are made up from.
If you could marry anyone in the world who would it be and why?
This will probably have changed by next week but at the moment I would have to say Ronda Rousey. She is an Olympic gold medallist in Judo and is strike force women's MMA champion. She is an unstoppable fighter and yet extremely beautiful. She is what young women need in answer to all this super skinny-sell your soul to be celebrity culture. She is super healthy, mentally strong, independent and not in it for the fame or money, just to fight and be somebody.
How do you overcome fear?
You don't, you learn to respect it, then manipulate it to your advantage, then you go back and face it. Remember it's only bravery if you are scared. Everybody gets scared, some deny and learn to hide it, but there scared too. There are many things in life to be afraid of, but the biggest one of all is living life in fear.
You seem to know a lot about life at such a young age, why do you think this is?
Stephen Fry says you don't have to be clever, wonder all the time and Now i have an iPhone I can quench some of that thirst for answers. Before if I heard a word that I wasn't sure about I would never have gone and gotten a dictionary, but now I can just Google a definition in seconds. It's a wonderful time for wondering.
For more information or questions as always follow Ben on Twitter @MMABENNYJ
How has life changed since you were growing up?
Well I think the biggest change is undoubtedly technology. Mobile phones are the landmark change that took real effect when I was about 15. Before if you rang someone's house and they weren't there then that was that, no friend for the day. Now we have so many different mediums of communication and there all available with a simple reach into our pockets. Messages that are written instead of spoken create an extra level of detachment. The other main change to society is that people now feel they can really be who they want to be. People these days feel more than free to be different, in fact they embrace it. When you add these two changes together you get a much faster, freer Britain.
What are your thoughts on society today?
It hasn't changed dramatically so much just sped up. I really like today's people, they are so much more accepting and far less confrontational. People consider other peoples feelings more these days. The one problem with that is that some people fail to act. Mainly I'm talking about younger kids and children. If I see kids up to no good I don't know how to behave where as when I was young and up to no good people would be straight over giving you a good telling off. I'm so proud of society as a whole today but if I had to think of negative points it would be drugs. Alcohol is especially different since the licencing laws changed. Today at night our streets are littered with zombie looking young people who have had way, way too much to drink and what's worse is it seems to be acceptable.
Some say happiness if hard to find, what are your thoughts on that?
Happiness is easy to find, it's keeping it that's the problem. Go to the fridge eat a bit of chocolate and you're happy. So happiness is easy to find... It's in the fridge. Problem is that feeling soon evaporates into nothing again. I really think that happiness is a choice, you can wake up everyday like it's Christmas morning if you truly learn to appreciate all the great things that you have. I'm not saying I do. But sometimes if I have a nightmare and I wake up I'm so happy for the life I have, I just wish I could hold onto that feeling. I think love in any form is important too, but the same rules apply. You have to appreciate it everyday.
What do you think are your strengths?
My modesty.
If someone gave you the choice of having £100,000 or being able to see into the future would one would you choose and why?
Hmm well I wouldn't want to see my own future as I like surprises. So I would take the money in that case. But if it was to see everything else then I would. If the world was good then I could relax about the future and if the world was terrible then I could do my up most to change whatever direction we took to get there. Also I could come back and make some accumulative bets that would me much much more than £100,000 then I would share it with you.
How much does family mean to you?
Biologically not that much. I know that might sound bad to some people but I think that the real family is the one you create for yourself. My friends are my family, that doesn't exclude my family at all, my Dad is my best mate. It's just I think as humans we should treat EVERYONE equally. I refuse to give an exception because we have similar DNA. I judge people on who they are as a person and not what genes they are made up from.
If you could marry anyone in the world who would it be and why?
This will probably have changed by next week but at the moment I would have to say Ronda Rousey. She is an Olympic gold medallist in Judo and is strike force women's MMA champion. She is an unstoppable fighter and yet extremely beautiful. She is what young women need in answer to all this super skinny-sell your soul to be celebrity culture. She is super healthy, mentally strong, independent and not in it for the fame or money, just to fight and be somebody.
How do you overcome fear?
You don't, you learn to respect it, then manipulate it to your advantage, then you go back and face it. Remember it's only bravery if you are scared. Everybody gets scared, some deny and learn to hide it, but there scared too. There are many things in life to be afraid of, but the biggest one of all is living life in fear.
You seem to know a lot about life at such a young age, why do you think this is?
Stephen Fry says you don't have to be clever, wonder all the time and Now i have an iPhone I can quench some of that thirst for answers. Before if I heard a word that I wasn't sure about I would never have gone and gotten a dictionary, but now I can just Google a definition in seconds. It's a wonderful time for wondering.
For more information or questions as always follow Ben on Twitter @MMABENNYJ
Sunday, 18 March 2012
Question Time
I randomly selected five people to ask me questions that they have always wanted to know the answer to.
Do you have a life plan if so, what is it?
Well, in all honesty my life plan is to aim for the best. In life not everything goes as planned but I think it's these moments that I work extremely hard to overcome. I don't really have a plan, I just take each day as it comes and make each day productive.
Who inspires you?
The one and only person that has ALWAYS inspired me is my mum. For her to have brought up six children on her own that alone is inspiring and we have been through some tough times in life but my mum has never given up and has taught us the real value of life.
What is your view on life after death?
That's a tough question, I do believe in life after death that you either go to heaven or hell. Some people try too hard to be "perfect" and they need to realise that no-one is perfect and never will be, also some people need to really think deep and hard about their religion because some tend to abuse that power and authority.
What's the difference between a chicken and a hen?
Chicken is a species of birds, and in that species are two families, the hens and roosters. A hen is a female chicken.
If you could have dinner with any famous person that is dead who would it be and why?
That would have be to PC David Rathband simply because to me he was a hero.
If you could get a part in any TV show which one would you choose and why?
It would either be Casualty, or EastEnders. I have watched EastEnders for many years and would love to add some youth and personality to the show. also I would like to portray a respectable and intellectual black girl as the stereotype for black people is becoming ludacris especially in this generation. Casualty, because I love the high drama and want to go into the medical field and I love Michael French so it would be the great opportunity to meet him. Besides them, I have applied for Junior Apprentice so watch this space!
Do you think positive sexism/racism is a good or bad thing considering it should be about character and actions?
Well I think you have answered your own questions there however I think that positive racism is a bad thing because living in this world the amount of abuse people receive is overwhelming and saying something like this could trigger a serious case. For example, someone stating that they 'love ALL black people' could come across as racist and may offend many people so I think it's just about being careful in what you say.
If over night the empowerment of women happened globally what would the world be like?
I think that the world would be... a better place. There would be cheaper clothing prices and fashion will control both men and women which could help some people (even a few celebrities). However, it would do more bad than good for women I think there will be too much fuss that's not needed for and the country could go into economic decline.
Where do you see yourself in ten years time?
In ten years time I see myself having a professional job and earning some cash but most of all I just want to be happy.
What is your favourite book?
Favourite book... either Of Mice and Men or Michael McIntyre's Live and Laughing. Michael McIntyre is an amazing comedian and his life story intrigues me every time. He makes me laugh and his story is very funny and the seriousness of some issues are just heart-breaking.
Do you have a life plan if so, what is it?
Well, in all honesty my life plan is to aim for the best. In life not everything goes as planned but I think it's these moments that I work extremely hard to overcome. I don't really have a plan, I just take each day as it comes and make each day productive.
Who inspires you?
The one and only person that has ALWAYS inspired me is my mum. For her to have brought up six children on her own that alone is inspiring and we have been through some tough times in life but my mum has never given up and has taught us the real value of life.
What is your view on life after death?
That's a tough question, I do believe in life after death that you either go to heaven or hell. Some people try too hard to be "perfect" and they need to realise that no-one is perfect and never will be, also some people need to really think deep and hard about their religion because some tend to abuse that power and authority.
What's the difference between a chicken and a hen?
Chicken is a species of birds, and in that species are two families, the hens and roosters. A hen is a female chicken.
If you could have dinner with any famous person that is dead who would it be and why?
That would have be to PC David Rathband simply because to me he was a hero.
If you could get a part in any TV show which one would you choose and why?
It would either be Casualty, or EastEnders. I have watched EastEnders for many years and would love to add some youth and personality to the show. also I would like to portray a respectable and intellectual black girl as the stereotype for black people is becoming ludacris especially in this generation. Casualty, because I love the high drama and want to go into the medical field and I love Michael French so it would be the great opportunity to meet him. Besides them, I have applied for Junior Apprentice so watch this space!
Do you think positive sexism/racism is a good or bad thing considering it should be about character and actions?
Well I think you have answered your own questions there however I think that positive racism is a bad thing because living in this world the amount of abuse people receive is overwhelming and saying something like this could trigger a serious case. For example, someone stating that they 'love ALL black people' could come across as racist and may offend many people so I think it's just about being careful in what you say.
If over night the empowerment of women happened globally what would the world be like?
I think that the world would be... a better place. There would be cheaper clothing prices and fashion will control both men and women which could help some people (even a few celebrities). However, it would do more bad than good for women I think there will be too much fuss that's not needed for and the country could go into economic decline.
Where do you see yourself in ten years time?
In ten years time I see myself having a professional job and earning some cash but most of all I just want to be happy.
What is your favourite book?
Favourite book... either Of Mice and Men or Michael McIntyre's Live and Laughing. Michael McIntyre is an amazing comedian and his life story intrigues me every time. He makes me laugh and his story is very funny and the seriousness of some issues are just heart-breaking.
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